How to make someone fall for you
Years ago i used to think that if someone didn't like me then i can never make him for me. I used to think that love is a natural mysterious process that has no rules or that cannot be controlled. But later on when i started to read about love's psychology i started to realize that this process is not random at all, but there are rules. By understanding and following these rules you will increase the chance of making someone fall for you by several folds
Understanding the rule
Marketing is based on researching the consumer's needs then providing him with products that satisfies these needs. If i have a superior product but the customer doesn't need it then he will never buy it. If i wrote an amazing article about training turtles to win every turtle race you will never be interested in reading it unless you have a turtle.
The same thing goes for love, if you managed to understand the other person's needs and wants you will be able to give him a product that satisfies these needs, in this case the product is you
The biggest mistake
The biggest mistake everyone makes when trying to make someone fall for them is that they try impressing their targets by things that impresses them themselves. For example if self confidence impresses you then you might think that it will impress your target too which is a very big mistake
our backgrounds, cultures and past experiences determine what impresses us and what makes us fall for someone
If someone lived with his parents feeling financially insecure then most probably he will be impressed by ambition or financial success while if someone never felt this insecurity he may not become impressed by such things
In summary, in order to make someone love you or in order to impress any person you need to know more information about his past experiences, his fears, his weak points and his background.
By understanding this person's needs then showing him that you can satisfy these needs you will be able to make that person fall for you
this is only one of the techniques that can help you make someone fall in love with you, there are tens of other techniques that you can use to make someone fall for you. The more techniques you use the higher will be your chance of success. Below are few other techniques for making people fall for you:
- Act like his parent if he loves him: If a girl loves her father so much then most probably she will be become attached to someone who resembles her father's looks, behavior or even the way he walks. The opposite is true for males
- Make him become addicted: If you got used to eating a chocolate every morning then will feel bad if one day you didn't find it. By providing nurturing to that person on continues bases then suddenly withdrawing, he will start to miss you
- Stand tall: It was found that having a straight back and appearing to be confident can make you become much more attractive. Stand tall whenever you are around the person who you want to fall for you
The heart-winning exercise for any man is to make a good impression. In your doing so, you don't have to talk, dress or do the common things that all the Toms do to get a decent girl's attention. Be unique, that's all you need. Be a man of his own style. Dress decently - indecency can make one be mistaken for arrogance; watch your language - obscene language gives the impression of immaturity, being uncultured and cheap; be a man of good habits - don't drink or smoke like any other loser.
Myths about Making Someone Love You
This article is based on psychology, subconscious mind programming, behavioral therapy, body language, reverse psychology, Neuro-Linguistic Programming, Hypnosis, and Physiology so don't scan it but read it word by word in order to get the best out of it.
Do you think that love is just an uncontrollable random process?
Do you think that if the person you loved didn’t love you back then nothing can be done about it؟
Do you think that you can't make someone fall in love with you?
The Truth about Making Someone Fall in Love with You
I hate websites that keep repeating the same logical and intuitive tricks that everyone already knows about. In my blogger I use psychology as the core of my writings but I present the complex principles in a simple form so that you don’t find any trouble understanding them. This articles exploits the operation of the human brain, it will teach you how to use psychology to make someone fall in love with you.
Most of us believe that love is completely random and can never be controlled or manipulated. However, the shocking truth is that love and hatred are fully controlled by the mind. If you can come to understand the logic behind that mind’s operation then you will have a good chance of making someone fall in love with you.
How to Make Someone Fall in Love with You
The following are methods and ways that can help you in making someone fall in love with you. Note that most of them are based on the psychology of falling in love and if you don’t know what that is, you'd better take a quick look first
I have what you need : when people search for a partner, they unconsciously try to find someone who is similar to what they like about themselves and at the same time different from what they hate about themselves. For example, someone who feels inferior but is also intelligent will seek an intelligent but confident partner. If this resembles the person you are targeting, playing the role of an incredibly confident person can be very effective, simply because you will be sending a message to his/her subconscious mind saying “I have what you need”. On the other hand try to do your best to show that you have some common interests (don't lie, just search for what’s common between you)
I have what you need : when people search for a partner, they unconsciously try to find someone who is similar to what they like about themselves and at the same time different from what they hate about themselves. For example, someone who feels inferior but is also intelligent will seek an intelligent but confident partner. If this resembles the person you are targeting, playing the role of an incredibly confident person can be very effective, simply because you will be sending a message to his/her subconscious mind saying “I have what you need”. On the other hand try to do your best to show that you have some common interests (don't lie, just search for what’s common between you)
- Meeting Criteria: Inside the mind of every one of us is a quick list of basic criteria that must be met before we even consider loving a person. Although meeting these criteria does not necessarily mean that we will love the person, not meeting any of them makes it certain that we will never love him. Examples of these criteria can be: "He must be a non smoker", "He must be religious" …etc. You should try to know the background of the person you like and attempt to meet his basic criteria, else you will be rejected before you even begin.
- Does Trying Harder Work? : Does repeatedly trying to approach a person work, or does chasing him or asking him out several times work
- Doing these things will most likely work if your partner is externally dependent. External dependency is being dependent on something or someone to make you feel good or to escape your bad mood. When someone becomes externally dependent, it's likely he'll jump at the first chance of getting into a relationship. If the person you are targeting is externally dependent then your chances of making him fall in love you becomes higher. That’s why caring for someone when he's down gives you a great chance of being loved by him because at these times people become more externally dependent]
- Program his Subconscious Mind: The subconscious mind can be made to accept something by continuous repetition. This doesn't mean that you should call your partner every five minutes, as that would be chasing his/her conscious mind. Chasing the subconscious mind requires no more than staying in sight, and letting him/her see you a lot. Even if you hardly talk, just staying in his/her sight is enough to enforce your position.
- More Subconscious Mind Programming : If you have mutual friends then you are even more lucky, since the subconscious mind is programmed much easier by trusted sources. The more your friends talk to him/her about how great you are (something you'll probably have to arrange) the better your chances of having a place in his/her subconscious mind. Just as subconscious mind programming can be a tool that helps you in making someone fall in love with you, it may be used against you without your notice and the result is finding yourself attached to someone whom you can't get over.
- position yourself well: what is the first word that comes to people's minds when they your name in mentioned? do they think of the word "strong","confident" or "loser"? positioning is simply associating yourself with a certian image that is printed in people's minds
- Meeting Criteria: Inside the mind of every one of us is a quick list of basic criteria that must be met before we even consider loving a person. Although meeting these criteria does not necessarily mean that we will love the person, not meeting any of them makes it certain that we will never love him. Examples of these criteria can be: "He must be a non smoker", "He must be religious" …etc. You should try to know the background of the person you like and attempt to meet his basic criteria, else you will be rejected before you even begin.
- Does Trying Harder Work? : Does repeatedly trying to approach a person work, or does chasing him or asking him out several times work
- Doing these things will most likely work if your partner is externally dependent. External dependency is being dependent on something or someone to make you feel good or to escape your bad mood. When someone becomes externally dependent, it's likely he'll jump at the first chance of getting into a relationship. If the person you are targeting is externally dependent then your chances of making him fall in love you becomes higher. That’s why caring for someone when he's down gives you a great chance of being loved by him because at these times people become more externally dependent]
- Program his Subconscious Mind: The subconscious mind can be made to accept something by continuous repetition. This doesn't mean that you should call your partner every five minutes, as that would be chasing his/her conscious mind. Chasing the subconscious mind requires no more than staying in sight, and letting him/her see you a lot. Even if you hardly talk, just staying in his/her sight is enough to enforce your position.
- More Subconscious Mind Programming : If you have mutual friends then you are even more lucky, since the subconscious mind is programmed much easier by trusted sources. The more your friends talk to him/her about how great you are (something you'll probably have to arrange) the better your chances of having a place in his/her subconscious mind. Just as subconscious mind programming can be a tool that helps you in making someone fall in love with you, it may be used against you without your notice and the result is finding yourself attached to someone whom you can't get over.
- position yourself well: what is the first word that comes to people's minds when they your name in mentioned? do they think of the word "strong","confident" or "loser"? positioning is simply associating yourself with a certian image that is printed in people's minds
