How do we fall in love

Falling in Love

How do we fall in love? 

No one ever wanted to be alone because we born to be couples its life so inside everyone of us a 

desire to be loved and to be with another one to feel perfect

I have my own philosophy which says:-

Everyone has a child mind deeply inside him and the person who can dive into our personality find, get close and touch that child will owe our mind and heart.

You’ll know that when you find your girl acting naturally like a child with you and it’s the same for men either without caring about any other thing

This tough girl and that tough guy if you touched that child inside them you’ll be the one they always want to be with

People like people who act like them

Finding a person with the same habits, loving the same things and hating the same things talking like you or acting like you in some things – it’s about finding Similarities will make him interesting and you’ll like to talk with then he may become the one you love but always remember everyone is interesting in the beginnings

The Image in your mind

Everyone has an imagination about the person he wants in his mind and when he find this image in the real world he just fall for this person naturally without thinking our realizing that we are falling BUT sometimes we try to draw that image on a real person who’s not reliable to be that person and start to love the wrong person without thinking. Just going with the flow without thinking or trying to stop ourselves which cause hurt later

Things that have effect on your future partner Image:-

Your previous relationship if you have a previous relationship and your ex was doing something that you don’t like or if there’s something you like about him you’ll also look for it

   Your father or brother when you see something you hate about your brother or father you’ll be care

about not finding the same flaw in your partner or if there’s something you like about them you’ll also look for it

     Your friend’s lover if you saw something good about one of your friends or sisters lovers you’ll also look for it in your lover

   TV Movies and series which draw a great image for the relationships

That’s why you may see someone and feel like if you fell in love from the first sight That’s how your subconscious works and affect on your conscious first it draw a picture about the person that you want then trying to find that picture in real world then when it happens you feel like if you fell in love with that person from the first sight

My advice is to be careful and when you find that you’re thinking about someone more than normal to take a break and think deeply about if he/she can be the one who you can continue your life with or not and always remember that everyone is interesting in the beginning

THINK before you let your heart go with the flow because it may get hurt if you let it go with the flow then you wanted your heart to go against the flow after going for a distance

Everyone has flaws but some flaws of others could be not flaws for us so if you accepted your partner’s flaws it won’t be flaws anymore

Love under the law of attraction:-

 According to the law of attraction, our thoughts become real so when we think about our need to a partner we just keep looking for a partner unconsciously and maybe fall in love without feeling that e are falling  in love and when we think that we wanna be alone we just be alone 

because our thought are like a magnets that magnet things alike our thoughts to our life