" Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep... wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you' re just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have YOU... The one who turns to his friends and says, thats her... "
Thursday, August 26, 2010
Wednesday, August 18, 2010
How to make someone fall in love with you
How to make someone fall in love with you
Years ago i used to think that if someone didn't like me then i can never make him for me. I used to think that love is a natural mysterious process that has no rules or that cannot be controlled. But later on when i started to read about love's psychology i started to realize that this process is not random at all, but there are rules. By understanding and following these rules you will increase the chance of making someone fall for you by several folds
Understanding the rule
Marketing is based on researching the consumer's needs then providing him with products that satisfies these needs. If i have a superior product but the customer doesn't need it then he will never buy it. If i wrote an amazing article about training turtles to win every turtle race you will never be interested in reading it unless you have a turtle.
The same thing goes for love, if you managed to understand the other person's needs and wants you will be able to give him a product that satisfies these needs, in this case the product is you
The biggest mistake
The biggest mistake everyone makes when trying to make someone fall for them is that they try impressing their targets by things that impresses them themselves. For example if self confidence impresses you then you might think that it will impress your target too which is a very big mistake
our backgrounds, cultures and past experiences determine what impresses us and what makes us fall for someone
If someone lived with his parents feeling financially insecure then most probably he will be impressed by ambition or financial success while if someone never felt this insecurity he may not become impressed by such things
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